Who holds what

A game for two, on one phone

So much of looking after a baby is invisible: the noticing, the remembering, the planning. It’s easy for two people to see the same week very differently, and neither is wrong. This game makes the picture visible, gently.

Each of you sorts 16 tasks on your own, without looking. Then you compare. If you’re expecting, sort them as you imagine the first months. If you’re parenting solo, play with whoever shares the load: a co-parent, a friend, a grandparent.